Depression of jealousy triggers phobia
Psychological case data of phobia: Chen Xiaohong, female, 23 years old, unmarried, nervous in the culture of technical secondary school, has been anxious for three years, embarrassed to be born, and avoided socializing for more than a year.
Come to the clinic for consultation because of serious impact on life and work.
Helper sister 姝 two, ranking the boss.
Not well-off in childhood.
Parents are usually taciturn, irritable and reprimanded.
The mother was cowardly, uncomfortable, and lively, often beaten and scolded by her parents.
The helper had normal childhood physical development and was very sensible.
I knew a little about humanity before I entered school.
Quiet, down-to-earth, cautious manner, polite, hard-working, good grades, often blame or self-blame for failing to win first place on a certain exam or receiving praise.
At the age of 19, she entered a middle school, and the female classmates who were recruiting in the flowering branches felt pressured to study angrily to show that they did not follow the trend, but the grades were mediocre, so they were sometimes discouraged, pessimistic, sometimes unhappy, and even afraid.
However, in public, he accidentally disagreed and was generous.
Always pay attention to the attitude of the students towards themselves, such as whether there is any insinuation in the speech?
Is there contempt in idleness?
One day in class, I found that the new young male teacher always seemed to pay attention to himself and was rather embarrassed.
After looking at the mirror after class, I didn’t find any clues in the costume. I couldn’t help but think and panic, and I would be confused when I met the teacher in the future.
Over time, the students seemed to be aware of the secrets in their hearts, so it was not natural to get along with the students.
After graduating, their parents turned to job seekers; “Listen to the leaders, follow the rules, and don’t gossip.
“People who seek help are committed to the creed, work hard, and never engage in chats with colleagues while at work.
Sometimes co-workers take the initiative to talk and pretend to do other things because they dare not face each other, or excuse themselves to walk away.
It is placed facing away from the wall, facing away from colleagues, temporarily accelerating or slowing down to and from work to avoid walking with people.
Knowing that it is not necessary to do so, or even to be criticized by others, but not afraid to get along with others, so often cross each other.
Later, I was introduced to a boyfriend, and the young and middle-aged young people were cuddling each other in front of the flowers and went into theaters and shopping malls; but every time they made up their minds, they immediately panicked, flushed, and even lost their courage.
The occasional invitation to an appointment is also deliberately long overdue.
Once, the man ‘s father ‘s birthday was invited to a banquet, and the helpers had no words to dodge. A few days ago, he began to feel restless, panicky, and trembling in his limbs.
When the in-laws met, they felt dizzy, sweaty and incoherent.
They were rushed to the hospital for treatment.
In the future, I almost felt ashamed to ask an outsider, and even the meal with my family was a bit unnatural.
In order to avoid this contradiction, we often pretend to stay at home to avoid association.
Private prosecution “I got a strange disease and I was afraid of seeing someone sick.
“I know that this fear is unnecessary, but when the matter is imminent and tense, I am puzzled by doing so, and I am distressed, anxious, and urged for treatment.
Patients with this phobia were treated with “perceived psychotherapy,” “model method,” and “systemic desensitization.”
General phobia is a special kind of obsessive-compulsive disorder in a sense.
The treatment of that patient first guided her to date consciousness or reason to the trauma experience that she had forgotten in the past, to introduce comprehension, and to re-understand these experiences with an adult attitude.
The patient realized that in the technical secondary school, the reason for not interacting with the classmates was because of suspicion and jealousy. The farther they were away from classmates, the more they became skeptical of the classmates. They suspected that they were discussing and guessing the secrets in my heart, so they were worried and blushing,This was the source of the horrors that later developed.
Later, we asked the patient to preview the scene of seeing her father-in-law and mother-in-law at her boyfriend’s house, and what to do step by step, what to do and deal with it.
The “dialogue practice” between the healer and the patient made the patient slowly no longer like before, and when he mentioned going to the mother-in-law’s house, he became nervous and sweated.
Then, let her gradually go to his house with her boyfriend for a while, and gradually can stay at his house for half a day.
After two months of treatment, if the helper started a holiday and there were many guests at his mother-in-law’s house, he could have a personality with his relatives.